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Workplace mediation - in person & online

Workplace mediation in Dublin, Kildare & the Midlands

Workplace conflict can affect much more than the people directly involved. Whether it's a disagreement between colleagues, difficulties within a team or a breakdown in communication between employees and management, mediation can help those involved address the issues and consider possible solutions.

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When workplace mediation helps

  • Two colleagues, or a manager and an employee, who are no longer communicating well
  • Tension within a team or between departments
  • Complaints about behaviour or management style, where both people are willing to talk
  • Returning to work after a long absence, a grievance or an investigation
  • Conflict between partners or directors in a practice or small business
  • Disagreements after a restructure, a promotion or a change of role

Mediation works best early. The sooner people sit down with an independent mediator, the more options they have.

When it is not suitable

Mediation is not a substitute for a formal investigation where one is needed, for example allegations of serious misconduct, harassment that someone does not wish to resolve informally, or matters raised as a protected disclosure. It also cannot change pay, contracts or dismissal decisions, which follow your own procedures. I will tell you honestly if I think mediation is not the right step.

Why use an independent mediator

Impartial

I have no history with your organisation, so both people can trust the process. That matters most when one party is more senior than the other.

Confidential

What is said in mediation stays in mediation (with the narrow exceptions set out in the Mediation Act 2017). HR receives only what both people agree to share, usually just that mediation took place and whether an agreement was reached.

In line with good practice

The Code of Practice on preventing and resolving bullying at work (2020) and the Code of Practice on grievance and disciplinary procedures both encourage early, informal resolution. Mediation is the most structured way to offer it.

An early, informal option

Mediation gives people a chance to talk things through before a matter moves into a formal grievance or a claim. Whether it resolves the issue depends on the people involved, and nobody is asked to agree to anything they do not accept.

How the process works

  1. Initial conversation with HR or the manager

    Free

    We discuss the situation, who is involved, and whether mediation fits. I explain confidentiality and what you will and will not hear back.

  2. Separate meetings with each person

    Usually 60-90 minutes each, in person or online

    Each person can speak freely, and decides whether they want to go ahead.

  3. Joint mediation session

    Usually a half day or a full day

    The length depends on the issues. I help the two of them talk about what has happened, what each needs, and what will change.

  4. Written agreement

    Practical, specific commitments in plain language, owned by the people who made them. Not a legal contract unless they choose to make it one.

  5. Optional follow-up

    A few weeks later

    A short check-in to see how the agreement is holding up.

Team mediation

For conflict involving a wider group, team mediation follows the same principles with group sessions. We plan it together.

If you have been asked to take part

For employees taking part

If you have been asked to take part in mediation, it is natural to feel uneasy. Here is what you can expect:

  • It is voluntary. You can ask questions before deciding, and you can stop at any time.
  • I am independent. Although your employer arranges and pays for mediation, I do not work for them and I do not take sides.
  • You will be heard first on your own. We meet privately before any joint session.
  • What you say is confidential. I will not report the content of our conversations to your employer.
  • Nothing is agreed without you. Any agreement is written in your words and only with your consent.
  • You can bring support. Talk to me about having a support person available on the day if that would help.

What it costs

Workplace mediation is usually priced per day or half day, covering the separate meetings, the joint session and the written agreement. Ask for a quote on the initial call.

The WRC also provides a free workplace mediation service. Some employers choose a private mediator for flexibility over scheduling, time and location, and a mediator who can meet people outside the workplace.

A private mediator

  • Scheduling arranged with you
  • Flexibility over time and location
  • Can meet people outside the workplace
  • Priced per day or half day

The WRC mediation service

  • Provided by the Workplace Relations Commission
  • Free of charge

Workplace mediation questions

Who pays for workplace mediation?

Usually the employer. That does not affect my independence: I act impartially for both people and do not report the content of the mediation to the organisation.

What does HR find out?

Only what both participants agree to share. Usually that is whether mediation took place and whether an agreement was reached.

Is a workplace mediation agreement legally binding?

Usually not. It is a set of commitments made in good faith. If the participants want something legally binding, they can say so and should take advice first.

Can mediation happen during a grievance process?

Yes. Grievance or investigation steps can be paused by agreement while mediation is tried.

How long does it take?

It depends on the issues, the number of people involved and everyone's availability. Joint sessions are often planned as a half day or a full day, and we agree the arrangements before mediation begins.

Can it be done online?

Yes. All stages can take place by secure video call, which can be useful for hybrid teams.

Mediation is not legal advice. I do not advise employers or employees on employment law or on the merits of any complaint.

Take the first step

Talk to me about your situation

A free, confidential call to discuss whether mediation is the right next step.

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