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Questions about mediation

Straight answers to the questions people ask most before they get in touch. If yours is not here, you are welcome to get in touch.

Getting started

What exactly is mediation?

Mediation is a process where an impartial mediator helps people in dispute communicate, discuss their concerns and explore possible solutions.

The mediator doesn't decide who's right or wrong, and the parties remain in control of whether they reach an agreement.

Is mediation the same as going to court?

No. In court, a judge determines the legal dispute. In mediation, the parties have an opportunity to work towards their own agreement with the help of an impartial mediator.

Do both sides have to agree to participate?

Mediation is generally voluntary. Although a court may encourage mediation or make relevant procedural orders, the mediator cannot force anyone to agree to a settlement.

Is mediation right for us?

Mediation may suit disputes where everyone is willing to take part, especially where an ongoing relationship matters: as colleagues, neighbours, adult family members, landlords and tenants, or business partners. It is not suitable where someone is at risk of harm or cannot speak freely. Getting in touch is a good place to explore this.

What if the other person will not take part?

Then mediation cannot go ahead. You can come back to it later if circumstances change.

How quickly can we start?

Once everyone has agreed to take part, we can find a time that suits everyone.

The process

How long does mediation take?

That depends on the nature and complexity of the dispute, the number of people involved and the issues being discussed. Practical arrangements can be considered during the initial enquiry.

Do we have to be in the same room?

Not necessarily. Some discussions may take place together, while others may happen separately, depending on the circumstances.

What happens if we can't agree?

An agreement isn't guaranteed. If mediation doesn't resolve the dispute, the parties may still have other options available to them, including legal proceedings where appropriate.

Can I stop mediation part way through?

Yes, at any time and for any reason. So can I, if I believe mediation is no longer appropriate.

Where can I read more about the process?

The What happens during mediation page walks through each stage, from getting in touch to finding a way forward.

Confidentiality

Is mediation confidential?

Mediation is generally confidential, although there are legal exceptions. The confidentiality arrangements will be explained before mediation begins.

Will you tell my employer what I said?

No. In workplace mediation your employer only hears what both participants agree to share.

Are sessions recorded?

No. Sessions are not recorded, in person or online.

Family relationships

Do you provide family mediation?

Concord Mediation offers mediation for certain family relationship disputes, such as disagreements between adult siblings and other adult family members.

I do not currently offer mediation for separating or divorcing couples, related parenting arrangements or specialist elder mediation.

Costs

How much does mediation cost?

Fees depend on the type of dispute and the time needed. I explain them in our first conversation, and they are confirmed in writing before mediation begins.

Who pays?

Usually the fee is shared equally. In workplace mediation the employer normally pays.

Do I pay if we do not reach agreement?

Yes. Fees never depend on the outcome.

Online mediation

Can mediation be done online?

Yes. Mediation can take place by secure video call, for people anywhere in Ireland.

Is online mediation right for me?

Many people find it easier to take part from their own space. We can talk about whether online sessions suit your situation when you get in touch.

What do I need?

A device with a camera, a steady connection and a private room. I offer a short test call beforehand.

Safety

What if I am afraid of the other person?

Please tell me in confidence when you first get in touch. We will talk about whether mediation can be made safe, for example with separate rooms, or whether another route would be better. If you are in danger now, call 999 or 112.

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